It seems that a lot of people find out that we are having a boy and react like we got what we wanted. It's not necessarily that we did or didn't, and maybe its just the fact that I am into sports, it's just odd that we never said we preferred one or the other, but so many people just assumed that we wanted a boy. Mind you, I'm not complaining. To me though, the biggest difference at this point is just establishing who among Bonnie and I will be the "Good Cop"and who will be the "Bad Cop". With a Girl, Dad gets to be completely wrapped around her finger, unable to deny her anything, and Mom plays the "bad Cop". So with the news of a Boy, and the great things that are sure to come with having a son, Bonnie is also basking in the fact that she gets to be the "Good Cop".